One thing I’ve noticed supporting women through pregnancy is that every pregnancy seems to bring its own lesson. Almost like each baby arrives through a doorway that asks something different of us. Sometimes pregnancy teaches us patience. Sometimes it teaches us how to slow down. Sometimes it teaches us how to trust our bodies when the world around us has a lot of opinions. In many ways, pregnancy feels like a portal. A crossing between who you were before and who you’re beco

By Lyndsey Petrino — Llamamma Mothercare Safety, Surrender, and the Physiology of Opening We speak often about safety, surrender, and trusting the body in birth. We talk about softening the jaw, slowing the breath, and creating environments where the nervous system feels supported. This is not simply philosophy, It is physiology. Birth is a neurological, hormonal, and emotional process — and much of it can be deeply affected by one powerful structure: the vagus nerve . When w

By Llamamma Mothercare Birth work calls us into some of the most sacred and vulnerable spaces in a person’s life. Yet for many birthing people, those spaces can also stir echoes of past pain. Domestic violence, sexual assault, and other trauma often leave deep impressions in the body and nervous system—shaping how safety, touch, and control are experienced during pregnancy, labor, and postpartum. At Llamamma Mothercare , we believe every doula and birth worker should feel equ

Written by a doula at LlaMamma Mothercare What does it actually mean to eat enough  while you breastfeed? Look — I know it’s hard. Truly nourishing yourself can feel like one of the hardest things in early motherhood. But it’s 2026, and we all know by now that we can’t pour from an empty cup. Breastfeeding is often framed as something we do for our babies  — and while that’s true, it’s only half the story. Lactation is also a profound, metabolically demanding process for the

If you’re planning a hospital birth, you’ve likely encountered a wide range of birth plan templates — some extremely detailed, others reduced to checkboxes that don’t leave much room for nuance. Over time, I’ve found that the most helpful approach is not starting with a fill-in-the-blank form, but with a thoughtful framework that helps you understand why certain preferences exist in the first place. That’s why I share the same birth plan template I use with my own clients at

By Llamamma Mothercare Every labour is unique. Some births move quickly, others unfold slowly over many hours. What’s universal, however, is that the way a birthing person moves and positions themselves can strongly influence both comfort and progress. Movement is not just about “doing something” — it’s about working with your body and baby to find balance, relieve discomfort, and open the pelvis at just the right times. Movement is medicine in labour. Positions help: Encoura

By Llamamma Mothercare Let me begin by saying that birth is incredible, and you possess immense strength! I truly believe that with practice and patience, you can cultivate a sense of peace and calm within your body. Women are among the most powerful beings on Earth, and sometimes we need to nurture that strength to fully access it. The phrase “bend, don’t break” resonates with me as I write this. My aim is to assist you in developing tools to remind you of your inherent powe

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By Llamamma Mothercare Postpartum Hemorrhage Isn’t a Mystery Postpartum Hemorrhage Isn’t a Mystery — It’s a Systemic Warning Sign. Postpartum hemorrhage (PPH) is on the rise — but the cause isn’t broken bodies. It’s a broken system. Between 1999 and 2019, the rate of maternal morbidity from hemorrhage in the U.S. more than doubled. This has happened despite advances in hospital care, medical tools, and billions of dollars in healthcare spending. Why? Because we’re misusing th

By Llamamma Mothercare Welcoming a new baby is a deeply transformative time. Having the right support can make all the difference—not...

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Did You Know? Medicaid Covers Birth Doulas in Washington State! If you’re pregnant in Vancouver, Washington, and enrolled in Apple Health (Medicaid), here’s something powerful you might not know...

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